Wednesday, January 07, 2009

The guy theory..

Conversation with a friend re-affirmed the following things for me:

Guys born and brought up in metropolitan cities, though are well educated and highly exposed, lack virtues such as open mindedness, tolerance and respect. They do not mind a girlfriend who drinks/smokes, wears "westerns", is independent and wants a carrier, but for a wife, they want just the opposite of the girlfriend types.

However, small town men, who've studied/worked in metropolitans are seen to be less of hypocrites, more open minded and understanding and a lot more tolerant and considerate.

Am sure not all of them fit the above criteria but as its said, one rotten apple spoils the whole basket and I've happened to come across more than a few of the rotten ones..

17 comments:

J said...

hhhhhmmm... if the appels you pick are often rotten, try changing the vendor ;)

ani said...

all the best babes! in the end its all ok! if its not ok... it's not the end!

shooting star said...

well...i have come across men who are hypocrites (in the context u are talking about) both frm metros and from small towns...and i have come across honest and straight forward men both from metros and small towns....
some experiences left a bitter taste in my nouth...so bitter that i swore off men ...but the man i married (well i should say the man who married me!!) reafirmed my faith in men ....
and what i believe is...its more of how and what type of parenting has gone into them...and also something called an inherent character that we are all born with.......

~ ॐ ~ said...

hmm... achcha !!!

I really like the response from "J" :) change the vendor... look somewhere else !!!

Adi Crazy said...

Agreed. Agreed. Agreed.
Meet me. I want to see if you are me, Again.
And BTW, whr r u lost lady, no call no nothing? In delhi or home town?

Sangfroid said...

Unfortunate that you've come across the rotten ones!

But believe me, there are exact opposite kinds of what you've mentioned also existing :-)

Sam said...

J, That's a good suggestion!! :)

Ani, I've heard that one somewhere.. :D and I believe it!!

Shooting Star, Wow, you've said it all, I totally agree, its the parenting and the inherent character that ultimately matters but please answer this one for me: How do you judge that??

Om, :D, will try to..

Adi, Lol, don't tell me you think likewise too!! We should catch up sometime.. Am in Delhi, got a job and head to toe into it.. :)

Sangfroid, Make me meet a few of them please, will you?? ;)

anav said...

Thank you for the words of praise...

Anonymous said...

Yaar tu to bahot intelligent ho gayi hai!!!

Impressionist said...

well, what can we do..we are like this itself! :D hehe!
and yeah, i agree with J too! :D

-I

Sam said...

Anav, Anytime!! :)

Anon, Shut up!! :D

Impressionist, Gaawwddd J's got some support system!! ;) How are you doing anyways?

J said...

:D

You know what.. an apple a day is passe. Try garlic.. they good for the health you know ;)

And me is back sammy!!

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MeMyself_n_I said...

you're so right u know. so many of the guys i've met are so unbelievably hypocritical, it's not funny.

but there r some real nice guys out there, so don't get disillusioned. :-)

unforgiven said...

City dwellers, in general, are assholes.

Men, AND, women.

akanksha said...

Interesting hmm! :-)

Sangfroid said...

Hey gal ... how u doin?
looong time no see(post) :-)