Monday, February 13, 2012

Mind games..

I have been wondering for a while now what it takes for two people to fall in love with each other.. Like truly fall in love, the movie types, the one which is not unconditional (maybe so) but real, the one that stands the test of time, the one with a happily ever after, the one where you are crazy about each other and it shows in your eyes.. What is that special element that binds two people together and I fail to get an answer.

When I reflect at my yester self, of the things that I wanted then, it was so different. I wanted an educated guy, well settled who respected my parents and me and lets me work. Earlier I thought that I wasn’t capable of anything too concrete, it made me nervous but now I am sure that I am and that I wouldn’t want to settle for anything else. So much has changed in the way I perceive things now. I feel if I actually like somebody, I would be more giving (contrary to my nature), I would be a lot more tolerant and willing to adjust more.. Now I don’t know what is simpler, I mean aren’t you supposed to get more realistic and practical instead of aiming for the moon and here I am doing precisely that, going backwards.

At the present all I need is love, tenderness and concern plus a person who makes me go crazy with laughter wouldn’t hurt either. If only..


Shruti said...

me too Sam ... :-/

Nikhil Menon said...

No offence, but how old are you? :)

Sangfroid said...

hmm ... hmmm ... hmmmm :)

Sam said...

Shruti, Hey its been ages, how've you been.. :)

Nikhil, None taken but lets not talk about age please.. :)

Sangfroid, Enlightening.. ;)

Aneesha (ani / ahighandahalf) said...

i used to wonder the same... and now i wonder how did it happen to me?! yes.. i have been bitten!!

Sam said...

Ani, Bitten?? Clarify lady.. :)